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CCPT Facilitative Response: Encouraging Self-Esteem
Child-centered play therapy (CCPT) facilitative responses are a therapist's tools for fostering a child's self-discovery, emotional expression, and self-acceptance. This article describes the technique of encouraging self-esteem, and its role in guiding children toward a healthier, more resilient sense of self.
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Facilitative responses in Child-centered play therapy such as encouraging self-esteem are powerful tools for children. By actively listening, expressing empathy, empowering choice, celebrating achievements, and providing non-verbal affirmation, therapists can significantly contribute to the development of a positive self-image in the children they work with. This approach not only aids in resolving the issues that brought the child to therapy but also equips them with the self-esteem necessary to navigate future challenges with confidence and resilience. In nurturing the seeds of self-worth through CCPT, therapists offer children a gift that will last a lifetime: the belief in their own intrinsic value and capabilities.




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The Role of Encouraging Self-Esteem

Facilitative responses are empathetic and reflective verbal and non-verbal reactions provided by therapists during play therapy sessions. These responses are not about leading the therapy but rather facilitating the child's exploration of their own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors through play. The aim is to create a safe, accepting, and understanding environment where children feel valued and heard, an essential foundation for nurturing self-esteem.

Applying Encouraging Self-Esteem

  1. Reflective Listening: This involves the therapist echoing back what the child is expressing, both verbally and through play, without judgment or interpretation. It helps the child feel understood and validates their experiences, reinforcing their sense of worth and confidence in challenging situations.

  2. Expressing Empathy: Demonstrating genuine empathy towards the child's feelings and experiences, therapists show that all emotions are acceptable. This unconditional acceptance helps children to internalize a sense of self-worth, fostering a positive self-image.

  3. Empowerment through Encouragement: Allowing children to lead in play and decision-making empowers them, boosting their self-esteem. Encouraging self-esteem responses reinforce a child's sense of competence, empowerment, and success when they overcome adversity, persist with a difficult task, fail and try again, or feel good about a personal accomplishment.

  4. Celebrating the Process: Recognizing and affirming the child's efforts and personal achievements, no matter how small, encourages a positive view of their abilities and intrinsic value. This acknowledgment builds a foundation for a healthy, confident self-esteem. The process will always be more important than the outcome in CCPT.

  5. Non-Verbal Affirmation: Non-verbal cues, such as nodding, smiling, and maintaining a warm and open posture, communicate acceptance and appreciation, further enhancing the child's sense of self-worth.

The Impact of Encouraging Self-Esteem

The impact of facilitative responses on a child's self-esteem can be profoundly important. Smaller accomplishments can add up to larger changes for the child. Through consistent, empathetic, and accepting interactions, children learn to view themselves as valuable, capable individuals. This positive self-conception is crucial for healthy psychological development, influencing their social interactions, resilience in facing challenges, and their overall well-being.